Monday 12 May 2008

Good. Better. BEST.

Am back... and with a bang, after a long struggle! Yes, the old me is fading off and a new person is being born in me, well quite literally! To all those who are wondering what's happening, here's the fag end of my bachelorette life. Yes, the guesses are right (i mean what more could it mean other than that!!). i'm engaged to be married next month! :)

Though there has been enough chaos and confusion over the past coupla weeks, the wait is finally over, and worth it too. I AM getting married and to the person i love. Yeah, it hurts at times to think of how my past was... i wouldn't say it was bitter, but the word that best fits would be a "learning experience" or rather "an experience which taught me several things in life". Anyways... things pass, and so has this. Now i'm really looking forward to make a 'family' of my own - i had dreamt of it for so many years, now the idea seems to be taking form, in fact it is taking up a form and i'm really happy about it. For those who really know what struggle it is for a woman to come to this point and feel elated, they'd really know what i mean! It's a phase i believe! It's all clearing up and i'm so very much looking forward to my wedding day. It's going to be one hell of a trip... my journey towards a married life. I'm celebrating it all by myself and with my would-be. I'm having all kinds of feelings now, mixed feelings as they call it, i suppose. It's funny at times and sometimes scary too but nevertheless i guess its all worth it. So here i am trying to evolve myself from the ashes to finer things in life. Congratulations to me! Wishing me a happy married life!

Note: This would most probably be my last blog before i get married. The rest that follows, if it does, would be after my marriage. So here i am my friends, the last part of me. Ciao!

38 comments:

sansmerci said...

'For those who really know what struggle it is for a woman to come to this point and feel elated, they'd really know what i mean!'

Yes definitely!T ell me about it. Marriage dreams is something that keeps haunting me as i keep running away trying not to get hurt again, but finally it always wins. I sure dono how it feels wen the moment finally arrives but i kno wat a 'woman' goes thro until then... it takes a lot to dream again wen ur hurt ... and once you do, it hurts again!...

If it takes half a lifetime to know what love is, i wonder then when the hell do i have the time to find the rite one!

crap apart gal ... m soooo happy for u .. wish u happiness and strength forever!

~Blindreck~ said...

thanks babe! i knew i could write those lines quite blindly... also knew well what you'd say too. its all gonna pass baby, trust me, its all gonna pass!

thanks for everything. :)

--xh-- said...

wow, thatz a great news.. :-D all teh best... "i wouldn't say it was bitter, but the word that best fits would be a "learning experience" or rather "an experience which taught me several things in life". "
couldnt agree more with you on this one - so true, so true... :)

~Blindreck~ said...

@xh
yeah some things in life you learn the hard way... thank you so much for the wishes! :)

Anonymous said...

"So here i am my friends, the last part of me. Ciao!"

Bye-bye!! Congrats!!

lucifer

~Blindreck~ said...

hey thanks da! hoping to see u here! :)

Anonymous said...

wooooooooooooooooo for the pic!

swar

~Blindreck~ said...

ai wat late reaction??? anyway..
wooo wooo!! :P
danx by the way!

Jane said...

Congratulations! Not that I know this for sure, but I hear marriage is hard even when it's right. So because you have been through a lot of pain to get to this point, I know you'll rock at it! God bless you both always.

~Blindreck~ said...

hey jane...
nice to see u here! yeah u sure said it right... am jus leaving everything to the person above - believing he wouldnt let me down this time! thanks a lot girl! :)

Multi Menon said...

hehe..
great piece of news...wishin ya and ur man lifes best times ahead...

chow!!

Pointblank said...

Congrats babe! Good luck to ye! Cute pic too :)

And then, did ye say, IF u blog??? U gonna get married n not die I suppose. Yeah, but we understand tat ul obviously be more busy :)

~Blindreck~ said...

hey multi!
thanks a lot for stopping by! and thank you so much for the wishes too! :)

~Blindreck~ said...

hehe point... u got it right! busy.. lol! i said IF for the long break that i most prob'ly will be taking! where else would i go if not for blogging.. wat say u?? ;) and thanks for the wishes girl!:)

Cockroach said...

Hi Sne, read the blog. I'm sure u r enjoying the thrill of it now. Once again my hearty wishes.

U girls said about the struggle of woman. Now u believe or not men r a million times concerned about happy married life. There is something common on birds. The male has to work hard to make the most comfortable nest. Only then he invite his woman. Now thatz about bird, again my principle of man is that "He is someone with whom his woman is happy. He live a life in his present and keeps all the promises he had given to his own past."

I did a short film on this theme months back as if my present is talking to my past on such a promise.

Anyways, not gettin into any philosophy, but wishing u a Happy Married Life.

Three Cheers and ThumbzZ Up
Cockroach

~Blindreck~ said...

@ roach!
the struggle mentioned over here has nothing to do with the daily chores or things of that sort... what I have mentioned is way too different. i agree that every man 'wishes' to build his nest before making a family... for a woman, the 'family' comes to her mind much before a man can even think of building a nest. thats the only difference! but yeah, i liked the example though :)
thanks a lot for the wishes again da :)

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

dei arun
like ur name always giving animals for references bledy cockroaches birds bats ;)
Regards
Vj

~Blindreck~ said...

@ vj
lol... good one! where you been? long time no see!

Anonymous said...

hmm ya i know long time been sucked into this black hole called WORK
ayo ayo
vj

~Blindreck~ said...

vj
yea i know.. but then take a break at times da... and visit my blog :P teehee...

Multi Menon said...

hehe..thanks for addin me into ur list..

and point is pretty rite in what he says...life's gonna be busier though you cud squeeze in sumtym to post nice stuff..pls..!!

Dipika said...

*bump*
Good blog! and Congratulations on getting hitched!

~Blindreck~ said...

@ multi
hey thanks for the encouragement... i'll definitely continue blogging, though i mite fall back to my lazy mode more often :P!! and oh btw.. pointblank is a she! :) thanks for visiting agian! :)

~Blindreck~ said...

@ dipika!
thank you so much! and thanks for the visit too! :)

Anonymous said...

rangarajan relations!!!

Pointblank said...

@ multi menon,
yeah.. point is SHE! Was my comment very ..err.. manly?!?! :P

MAN IN PAINTING said...

best wishes....
It is a great feeling.
Congrats.
me too blog
do visit.
bye.

Multi Menon said...

hey sis..great pic..And btw,wedding bells evide varey ethi??

and u gotta new skin too..cool one..and WER the POSTS??? :-)

Blindwreck said...

@ man in painting
thank you for the wishes :) will visit soon

@ multi
mone, the bell rang long back :P
thanks for the compliments :D :D was getting super bored y'day so decided to change the template n stuff... the posts are yet to flow, suffering writer's block you see :D

Multi Menon said...

@ Blind

oh great..sangathi kalakki!!congratulations to U and HIM
and btw,u happen to be in chennai??

Btw,get back into cruise mode asap k?
:-)

Blindwreck said...

Thank you! yeah, m in chennai :)

Multi Menon said...

hehe..me too stayin in chennai tho i study at calicut..u in orkut??wish we cud be friends lest any reservations frm ur side.. :-)

Blindwreck said...

sure... but am not on orkut, am in facebook tho!

Multi Menon said...

hey..
the thing is tht i dunno ur real name nor ur email id..so,how cud i find u in facebook??

i have posted my id in my profile..but das not gonna help i blive.. :-(

Anonymous said...

i think i gotcha!! :)

blind

Vik Rajagopalan said...

Oh congratulations matey, have a super cool life, a lil birdie you know told me about this all.. [:D]

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