Tuesday 31 March, 2009

My Last Glorious Days


Whoa!! I cant believe I'm just 49 days or maybe lesser from the d-day!! Absolutely thrilling at the thought of me lying on the labor room, probably screaming at the top of my voice too. And to realise that the day isnt too far away. I feel there's so much pending to do... havent bought a thing for the baby and that is highly depressing (atleast for me!). el thinks we need to wait until the delivery... so that he can enjoy doing the shopping alone, bah!!! i've tried conveying the message right into his head through my mom and sis... (*evil grin*) c'mon what more can i do when he just doesnt wanna listen to me! I'm here dying to start shopping for the lil one... imagine, those tiny dresses, socks, caps, towels.... awww!! i really need to shake him up a bit this month, before its too late! hmmphh...


Yes, coming back to the pending works... we are yet to decide on the name n u wont believe that he tells me that can be done once the baby's born! i'm wondering whether anything at all will be decided or done before??? i'm already going paranoid thinking about what's coming up and nothing seems to be helping me a bit! is that how things normally work with couples, or are we just being uniquely poles apart?!! whatever!! i dont seem to be liking the idea anyway!

As of now, i'm fighting away my nights tossing and turning in the bed and mind it, it aint a bit easy, and i wake me up everytime i turn to the other side. gosh, the weight shifts on your back completely and i feel like a mammoth! and those visits to the loo... nature has it very weird way of preparing you for sleepless nights that's yet to come! But honestly, amazing isnt the word! I’m sure my baby’s gonna be a sweetheart... she’s gonna give me enough rest and less trouble. Hopefully. Amen!!

25 comments:

Nikhil Menon said...

Ooohhhhhhhh!!!!!!I jus cant wait for the kunjuvavaaa to arrive.. :D Am counting these days u kno??and marking my pocket calendar(silly me!! :D) and yeah,u better get in touch with me with regards to the date ok?? :)

Take care sis and am praying harder as ever.. :)

Hugzzzzzzzzzzzz(would tht be possible now>? :p lol)

Nikhil

Blindwreck said...

wow! you're fast mon! hehe... jobless as me eh? well, ill surely keep u posted once the baby arrives, but how? maybe ill ask swar to pass it on to u'll? thanks for all the prayers, really. makes me feel good... :)

hugsss to u too (a lil complicated affair now, but that's ok, how abt a virtual hug??lol..)

My Kitchen Antics said...

sne..blue if its a boy, pink if its a girl..if i was around i swear i would have thrown a baby shower for you:)

the blogger formerly known as sansmerci said...

sne... indifference is a male characteristic.. if its not there in him it means hes gay :P so b happy hes jus as MAN as he shud b... i learnt it with jus one wedding :P and a brother... how come u dono it already? and thts exctly y we want a HER baby here don we :P

m tryin to say that men r not very excited or don show it out usually.. i dono bout elu but i'm guessing these procrastinations are cos of it, so don blame him i say!

and yea as nish says u need some female company around who will b as excited as u and start doin things for the kid already... mayb ur missin me this time :D ahhhhhh i swear i wud die to b there with u for the shoppin de .. one cos its for u and two its for UR baby and three, its kids clothin mannnnnn i ve never shopped for em and been waitin for a chance to! i hope m bak atleast a week b4 the baby arrives and i ll buy HER everything i swear :)

the blogger formerly known as sansmerci said...

note to nish

i am not able to read ur blog gal... it says i don have permission :( y so

Salomie said...

Hi, dropped in via Reflections' blog. Congrats on your baby! I'm only 4 months along, but already uninterrupted sleep's a thing of the past. But I like your hopefulness towards the baby being cooperative :) I'm already trying to send mine positive vibes about sleeping when I do....hopefully it'll register :D

Blindwreck said...

awww nish.. hugs hugs... >:D< thanks
i dont mind the baby shower but am a lil worried abt our indian baby shower ceremony... its quite an event! sho!!

btw... blue or pink, am seriously thinking of changing the whole color system for babies... maybe some ash and orange ;) how abt that?? wouldnt it look quite wacky!!?? :D

Blindwreck said...

swar... men are indifferent, who denies that! its a given. i was jus hoping experiences or incidences change them... sighhhh, they dont, and that's what am probably learning now!
yeah, i seriously wish all you guys were around... would have been so much fun... u, nish, jane and all.. i miss u guys really! u better be here b4 the delivery madame, and yeah keep your shopping list big! :D

Blindwreck said...

hey shalom! wow, congrats! i got a company here, err almost! how wonderful to hear of new borns... there's so many of my known ppl in the list... very nice! :)

yeah, i'm just being positive, hope that registers even before she arrives... lol!! you take good care of yourself and am sure your babe's an angel, she'll listen to u, dont worry! :D thanks for dropping by :)

Blindwreck said...

hey nish... what have u done to your blog? i cant get access either. pls grant us permission mademoiselle!

My Kitchen Antics said...

Swar..sorry i ahve no idea what i did i have totally messed it up..will figure it out
sne...ash?? girl its a baby it has to be soft and sweet not depressing..

Reflections said...

Hope u dont mind me telling u this...U've got to prepare a bit for the baby, makes it a lot easier on u & ur parents later. Make sure the nappies/diapers, wipes, few new born clothes, flannels[to wrap them in- atleast 3-4] & other small knick-knacks are in hand.
The good clothes, booties, etc can come later.
Tell ur husband he'll be too busy after the birth so u guys have to prepare ahead.

P.s: Just thought I'll warn u....the last month is going to drag;-D

p.p.s: came here to tell u tht u r tagged:-)).

Blindwreck said...

nish... kidding di! but c'mon why would ash be depressig, its after all a color! anyways, the stores are loaded with only pinks n blues... so we have lesser choice! maybe ill think of pastel yellow! isnt that nice :)

Blindwreck said...

oh reflec... how much i know its going to be after the baby's born! i've finally convinced my husb today to go shopping and the good news is he's agreed!! now that's something to be positive about :D i absolutely dont mind u telling me anything.. i appreciate it in fact. thanks a ton :)

the blogger formerly known as sansmerci said...

sne.... i jus bght babysne a dozen bangles :) damn cute i wud loot them for myself if it wud fit me :D
so yea delhi bangles (infact mathura bangles, hopin its a SHE!) but anyways mathura is for krishna so a boy baby can wear it too :)

and yea.. listen to nancy.. from wat i kno of her (followin her blog for months now) she shud b the best person to tell u bout kids :)

Blindwreck said...

aye aye madam! will listen up! bangles for my baby eh? awww love u honey, thanks a loooooot! u are the first person to have bot something for our baby... so cute! boy or girl, ill definitely put it on him/her hun, thats a promise! muahs muahs...

Nikhil Menon said...

hey,ll spk to u soon..That shudb great,u permitting.. :D ll send u ma number into ur FB inbox..wot say?? :)

and btw,I dun wanna complicate things as of now,.. :p

Take care.. :)

Nikhil

My Kitchen Antics said...

sne..infact i was also thinking in terms of colours and yes pastel yellow is a pretty colour and a change to the usuals:)

Pointblank said...

Sne.. what bout PEACH?!?!? One od my favs... nd i think the baby will look cute in it... :)

Blindwreck said...

nish & neet
yeah yellow and peach are better! a relief for the eye... and the babies will look damn cute in it too :) yeah so i was saying that i made my first shopping and i bought all possible colors they had... they had a lovely shade of green and i picked that up too :) so basically am thrilled to bits! :D

Blindwreck said...

nikhil,
i've noted ur no dude... will keep u posted.. will buzz u sometime soon :)

Kelvy said...

so did u finally get the shopping done???
i sure do agree that a change of colours r needed for the babies...All the best sne...

Blindwreck said...

yeah kel,
i did and it was an awesome experience! still some more to do but i guess ill get elvis to do it.. jus impossible to do any more shopping at this point. one the heat is killing and two, i cant stand for even 10 mins!

Pointblank said...

ooops sne!!! Sorry if my poem made u depressed. Bad timing I say!

Blindwreck said...

hey neet,
cha cha... no issues at all da! i jus said cos it was the 'timing', am absolutely fine though. u chill awrite? :)